Molly Hemingway (and several others) on the horror of not having Santa growing up. I’m with Ms. Hemingway, Santa was always such a minor trifle I can’t stir up the emotional energy to care. If my child asks, I answer “what do you think?” Ethan (4) just says of course. Anna (10) doesn’t want Santa believer Ellen’s presents to stop. And then I typically ask something like “what is the main purpose of Santa?” Which as the older they get the more it becomes about the naughty and nice list. I have to confess using on David the Santa Scanner, an iPod app that determines which list you are on (controlled nicely by where you press the button and how clean the room is). But my goal is then to ask, “is that what you hear in Sunday School about Christmas?” And the answer is no. I don’t necessarily want to teach them morality although the 10 commandment are a good start. What I want to teach them is God’s grace. We make up things like Santa, but they are only non-toxic when handled with grace. When I give the Santa Scanner to David to scan me and it puts Daddy on the naughty list.